Tag: autonomic deference

Autonomic deference names body-level yielding to another person’s authority, preference, emotion, interpretation, or relational demand before deliberate choice becomes fully available. Under prolonged or developmentally formative captivity, deference may become anticipatory and autonomic because disagreement, refusal, or separateness has repeatedly carried consequence. Apparent cooperation or receptivity therefore does not necessarily demonstrate freely chosen consent.

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