Tag: developmental differentiation

Differentiation restores usable distinction between self and other, responsibility and omnipotence, human authority and God, and relationship and possession.

  • Grief Inside Captivity

    When Loss Cannot Yet Become Grief Grief is often understood as a response to loss. Something ends. Someone dies. A relationship breaks. A future becomes impossible. The person who remains must gradually encounter what is no longer there. But captivity…

  • Invisible Captivity

    When the Architecture of Constraint Does Not Look Like Captivity Faith. Care. Clinical authority. Institutional responsibility. Loyalty. Belonging. Affection. None of these forms establishes captivity. The question is what happens inside the form. Can the survivor disagree without meaningful consequence?…

  • The Clean Container

    Care requires relationship. A clinician cannot offer meaningful relational care while remaining entirely detached. A pastor cannot accompany suffering without being affected. An advocate may feel anger at injustice. A friend may grieve. A helper may experience tenderness, protectiveness, sorrow,…